9/25/2001: Robin, Sean, Jessie, Cam

Tuesday, March 20, 2007

Sundry stuff

A hurried posting of older family photos--Allison, the kids, grandparents--I promised last year after the funeral that I'd post some of Grandpa golfing--well, here's finally one at last...



And here's Allison twenty-odd years ago after swimming 100 laps for a charity fundraiser at the Glendale Y--congratulated with an embrace from my dad, proud as punch.



Another from some Pleistocene past: Allison appraising some slouching rogue at the Topsfield fair...



And here's a video wisp of our time in Yosemite three years ago...

Sunday, March 11, 2007

Amazing Grace

Last night we celebrated son Sean's 22nd birthday--March 8th. We drove to Salem to see the film Amazing Grace, and ate a late dinner afterwards. Here are some photos that Jessie took--the birthday boy, Cam & Kim with Allison in the background, Robbie w/Dad. Little brother Robin (nonplussed by the movie) nearly fell asleep in the theatre as we prepared to leave...!






...And from earlier in the week, the photographer Jessie and one of her shots of the beach across the street...





Little Robbie wrote the following snippet in brother Sean's birthday card. (By way of context I suppose it helps to know that Sean has a heart for VN and spent two entire summers in Hanoi, learning the language at the university there. At one point in the past few weeks, Cameron and Sean jokingly hatched some money-making scheme that involved buying a factory in VN.) Brother Robin wrote:

"Seany, you are the bomdiggedy bombedy-diggity-bomb. You really have a way with words--unlike me. And I just wanted to say that as you get older, I'll always be by your side. When you go through hard times, I'll cry with you. When you are having a good time, I'll laugh with you...but when it comes to that factory in Vietnam, I'll be sitting in my apartment in a skyscraper with my babe and laugh at you when you get arrested. Happy 22nd Birthday! Love, Robin."

Saturday, February 17, 2007

A Few Video Clips

The kids have thrown together a few music video clips--and though the technical qualities vary, they capture bits of our lives we're happy to share with many of our family members and friends far away.

In this video, Jessie writes: "my family is so talented- here is Sean, Mom, and Jessie singing this beautiful hymn, accompanied by Jessie on piano. Photos and video clips play in background."



Jessie again, here singing some Joni Mitchell songs, writing: "I can't do it as well as she did, but here's me giving it a try. Also, at the end is a little ditty of mine. Enjoy :)"



And here are some carols from Christmas, 2006:

Saturday, January 20, 2007

Stu Hackett and the Nashville West


A blast from the past--a photo of a band I was once in: Stu Hackett and the Nashville West. The band was enormous fun and enthusiastic--Stu a magnificent man and stellar philosopher--driven by love for God. Stu and Joan had a home that to my mind was always warm and open to us--our practices seemed to include homemade cookies most the time. As Johnny Cash (Stu's favorite) once wrote: "Where are your mountains to match some men?"

Saturday, July 22, 2006

Margaret Ann




Another sad time. Our darling, dear friend Margaret Ann Johnson battled ovarian cancer for the last few years--she's now sheltered and secure in the arms of the God she loved so deeply.

We can only treasure her life--to all her friends she remains the magnificent, dynamic woman she always was for us; she urged us to gaze upon and cherish God and the beauty of this world--the ocean and the beaches of Massachusetts, glorious skies, other vistas and cultures, friends, students and children, the treasures of conversation and laughter.

Here's a photo from a stay on Nantucket--you can almost make out Margaret Ann's vibrant passion for life in those deep, green eyes.

Friday, April 14, 2006

April in Paris

Daughter Jessie's flying to Paris today (Good Friday) with her RHS friends. We miss her already! Here are some photos for family to peruse on the West Coast.



Tuesday, March 28, 2006

Roberto


A quick posting of a photo of our youngest son, Robin Lovell--hopefully one of the last winter photos this year!

Sunday, March 05, 2006

Lanesville photos

Here are some delightful photos of our Lanesville Congregational Church community, past and present.













Friday, March 03, 2006

Robert Calvin Lovell, 1925-2006



A sad time for us: my dad died February 14th, St. Valentine's Day.

He remains for me a magnificent man, a winsome, engaging, good-humored loving father, grandfather, husband--with a heart of love for God, overcoming so much throughout his life: his brave service as a Corpsman with the 1st Marines in WWII (Peleliu & Guadalcanal), and before that, as a boy of 13, his mother's early, tragic death by her own hand. We miss him enormously--we realize he's now with the God he yearned for.

For now, here above is a fuzzy photo from around 1948-9--we'll try to scan others over time--& especially some capturing his joy at golf!

Allison today found something we wrote just a few years ago, about Dad:

"He's never seen our new place: the blue, grey, green glints of granite ledge peppering the woods behind our house--or the walk down to the bright sea, the waves wheeling where Milk Island juts out from the Saratoga marsh near the seawall. Dad's never been to the beach there with us, with the kids darting in and out of the surf, throwing themselves down to the warmth of their beach towels to rest. I've ever told him how much their eyes, and skinny legs, and laughter in the seabreeze all remind me of his--how much my own fingers brushing sand from their hair remind me of his hands and constant love--or how the blues and greens and greys of the ocean, and of the granite ledge all around us, remind me of his hazel eyes, always..."

Sunday, January 15, 2006

Meggie Lovell

OK, after much clamoring from family--this posted photo of our dog, Meggie:

Sunday, January 08, 2006

Scanning photos

While hunting for old photos of Lanesville, we came across some old snapshots. Here first are two of Allison, Rachel & Wendy Wyman in Manhattan, 1983.

And below that, though uncomplimentary of both of the Lovell guys, is a photo my friend & forever 'best man' Jimbo Rotholz sent up with its hilarious caption! And finally, a photo of Allison with some guy in California, long ago...


Allison in Central Park with Rachel, 1983.


Wendy & Rachel Wyman in Greenwich Village, 1983.


My 'best man' Jim. Jim's wisecracking caption to this unflattering photo of a father & son: "The fathers have eaten sour grapes, and the children's teeth have been set on edge." -Jeremiah 31.22.


Feet of clay shuffle into something akin to splendor

Happened upon some old photos of our wedding at Lanesville Congregational Church in Lanesville, Gloucester MA, May 16th 1981--nearly 25 years ago!:













(Photos: courtesy our dear friend Mark Alesse.)

Friday, December 09, 2005

Another whirl of days

After a half year away from this blog, I thought I'd try to breathe a bit of life back into it. Much has changed--Cam's now in far away Amherst, a UMass freshman--Sean's nearly a senior now at, after spending 3 months this summer in Hanoi--Jessie's back at Rockport High School for her junior year--and Robin boy is at Rockport Elementary--they all seem to flourish in everything they're doing right now.

Allison's still working part-time, and brings so much splendor to our lives--the confluence of never-ending duties and errands, with the beauty of her singing, her laughter, her savvy counsel, day in & day out. I found a fun photo on my computer from last year--here it is.

Allison Lovell. Rockport 2005.

Friday, April 22, 2005

Time with Jim and Sheryl

Allison and I are having a great time in California with a wonderful couple: brother Jim and his wife Sheryl, all while celebrating our amazing Dad's 80th in Laguna.

Here's a photo of Robbie, Allison and me from an earlier trip to CA last year:

Robin Lovell & the 'Rents'. Laguna 2004.



John Lovell. Gloucester 2005.

Saturday, April 16, 2005

Odds & ends: 'tytters and tatters"

Spring track has started for Cam and Jessie:
"Taking firsts against both teams, Lovell won both hurdles events, with wins in the 300 hurdles (43.2) and 110 hurdles (16.4). Phaneuf won the long jump (20-foot-4.5 inches) and the 4x400 team won with Duncan, Brian Parro, McLoughlin and Georgetown's Dan Small as the crew (3:51)."
--From 'Sports notebook' article; Thursday, April 14, 2005:
http://www2.townonline.com/ipswich


Jessie's first semi-formal
Here's a new photo of Jessie with Conrad Ahlin at St. John's semi-formal:




















Irreplaceable wealth: something from Sean


Sean has recently taken a backward glance at his year in Paris in 2001. His reflection reminds me of something C.S. Lewis wrote in The Oxford History of English Literature in 1944: "[The sixteenth century] illustrates well enough the usual complex, unpatterned historical process; in which, while men often throw away irreplaceable wealth, they not infrequently escape what seemed inevitable dangers, not knowing that they have done either nor how they did it."

There is a large window in the back of the classroom at Fénelon Sainte-Marie which frames the top of a tree and a fourth floor limestone apartment. If you approach it closely, you will see an cathedral further down the road and the cars quickly scattering beyond it; open it during late summer, and you will feel the entering heat and see a boulangerie, whose ovens aired strongly amid our lectures and discussions.

It was in late summer during 2001 that I first looked through the large window. One hundred years ago, the school taught the daughters of the Catholic aristocracy, and while this has changed, it still bore the beautiful and faded marks of its extravagance, and had large, elaborate mirrors on the walls of each room, though they were speckled with age. The building contained within its walls the essential fabric of human past. Voices and footsteps were still faintly heard; young faces and smiles still ghost through the halls, though they were framed on the wall in a timeless, ethereal mosaic.

Later that afternoon, I had returned to apartment and heard the sound of a television. I approached to see who was home—

Pause.

There I saw Catherine, my host mother, standing upright and overwhelmed, embracing Marguerite, her daughter, and Paul-Arthur, her son, as three thousand lives were ended.

Here is a snapshot of time. There was the fourth story window; there were the girls at Fénelon; now, there are these three individuals with their arms around each other.

There is an infinity of these images that constitutes every moment of our lives; they abound massively; wherever you look, life is happening: it is fleeting and overlooked. I discovered my role within a much larger context: I was bound to Catherine, I was bound to those whose fatal ends I witnessed; somehow I was bound to the girls in the photo, though they are dead. I had never seen things this way before.

September twelfth was sunny, as the previous day had been. When the bell rang, I got up from my desk and turned towards the window and saw a girl standing alone at the small balcony, staring down at the crowd below. I called out to her in broken French, asking her name. She turned to me and, in English, answered with a puzzled look on her face, saying that her name was Kate, that she was an American, and wasn’t I was well?

Kate and I descended to the sidewalk; at the corner of rue Monceau and rue du Général-Foy, the roadwork continued and a new, pristine asphalt street trailed behind the large machines. Kate frowned when she saw that pavement that had replaced the cobblestones, perhaps the same stones those girls once walked on. These stones, snapshots of time and memories, lay in a truck. Whatever depth we imagine in our greatest treasures, it is only a shadow, an echo; its true beauty is lost and invariably missed.

Another exquisite poem from Cam:

Cloud Watching

Sucking surf, summer song,
Dance and laughing lovers long
Across the sand I scarcely see
This hiding island seems to be
A common ground for more than three
And perhaps a staggered throng.

Toothed and terraced to the tip
Serrated edges, should you slip,
(And if you are so lightly skinned)
Leave their mark with stinging scrapes.
Salted stone smooth glisten and shine
Beat buffed black by bashing brine.

But a blanket white and streaked with
Blue and green I’m blind to see
Island paradise unto the sea—
Beyond whipping wind, winter woes,
Worries, wishes, canticle foes,
Where laying back to watch the sky,
Behold the real world passing by

Monday, April 11, 2005

Thatcher's Island, August 2001


Robin, Sean, Jessie, Cameron: Twin Lights - August 2001.

If you close your eyes just a bit,
And gaze past the dying birch near the road,
Through the ashen spaces between branches
Soon filled with green, or else glance
Over while driving past the swells near Thatchers
Or Good Harbor, or perhaps just squint a bit
Around the room, setting your book on your lap,
The kids asleep now upstairs-if you close your eyes
So the light becomes that gossamer haze of distance,
You can nearly capture this moment, you can almost
Pan out from the room and street, lift far above the rooflines,
The clouds and atmosphere, planets and suns and their coursing
Through the hours, through the centuries. You'll say
"What's that bright jewel there below?" and in an instant
Find shelter there: bathed in faceted light, songs
Of angels all round (heartbreaking, heartening), praises and laughter,
Words of love and comfort at every turn, all swathed in
The distant and half-remembered scent of roses, sea-salt.
My darling, here's early heaven--some pure
And perfect gift, some secret garden we two now share. (I've heard:
"But a foretaste"--but a foretaste of honey is sweet from the start!)
Life together, with you, is the loveliest bit of heaven ever on earth.
--For Allison, 2001.

Tuesday, March 15, 2005


Annisquam, 1999